How Have You Changed Since 9/11?

In "Common Sense" Paine says that things will never be the same after April 19, 1775 (The Battle of Lexington/Concord). In other words, the world cannot return to a pre-Lexington/Concord period. This sounds familiar to me. Do you think that the world changed irrevocably after 9/11?

Another question: Paine also says that there is a time when debate must cease and fighting must begin. Do you agree with Paine? Do you think that we, as Americans, are more prone to war than we are to peace? Do we prefer guns to dialogue?

Grant T. Smith

Patriarchal Life in the Seventh-teenth Century

What do you think of this quote from Benjamin Wadsworth from "The Well-Ordered Family," 1712? "O Woman, if thy Husband be not so young, beautiful, healthy, so well temper'd and qualified as thee couldst wish; if he has not such abilities, riches, honours, as some others have; if he does not carry it so well as he should...It may be thy discontent, fretting, scolding, quarrelling, makes thy Husband weary of the house, he can't abide to be at home, he has no quiet nor peace there; this makes him idle away his time, get into bad company, stay out late at nights, take to Tippling, Gaming and other ill practices..."

Clearly paternal authority was at the center of the notion of a well-ordered family in 17th-century America. How have things changed in the 300 years since Wadsworth wrote his treatise on family?